Veteran Nollywood actress Ronke Oshodi-Oke has openly commended her colleague Iyabo Ojo for displaying exceptional maturity and emotional intelligence by including her ex-husband in the wedding of their daughter, Priscilla Ojo. Her heartfelt remarks came during a candid interview with Oyin Momo TV, where she lauded Iyabo’s parenting style and her long-standing dedication as a mother.
According to Ronke, Iyabo Ojo's decision to prioritize unity and family harmony by inviting Priscilla’s father to the ceremony was not only commendable but also deeply instructive. She recalled fond memories of Iyabo during the early years of her motherhood, highlighting her as a hands-on parent who was always seen in the company of her children.
“I have to give Iyabo her flowers,” Ronke said earnestly. “Back then, when Priscilla and her brother were just kids, Iyabo was always on the move with them—school events, functions, outings—you name it. She was present every step of the way. She’s a committed and loving mother, and seeing her ex-husband at the wedding gave me a whole new level of respect for her. That kind of maturity isn't easy. In fact, I learned something powerful from her example.”
Ronke then turned her attention to the swirling public criticism surrounding gospel singer Tope Alabi, whose ex-husband’s absence at their daughter’s wedding recently sparked a flurry of reactions online. Cautioning against hasty judgments, Ronke urged Nigerians to consider the possibility that the decision might have come from the daughter herself, rather than solely blaming the mother.
“Let’s be careful not to throw stones at Tope Alabi without knowing the full story,” she advised. “Her daughter is 27 years old—she’s an adult. It’s very possible that she made her own decision about who she wanted at her wedding. If she truly wanted her father present, she could have insisted. We should remember that grown children have agency too.”
While she made it clear that she does not support the idea of alienating any parent from such a significant moment, Ronke emphasized the importance of context and understanding the nuanced dynamics of family relationships. In the case of Iyabo Ojo, she concluded, it was evident that Priscilla valued the presence of both parents, and her mother’s willingness to embrace that showed real strength and emotional maturity.
Ronke’s remarks have since resonated with many Nigerians, adding a thoughtful layer to the ongoing public discourse on co-parenting, forgiveness, and the often complex decisions behind family milestones. Her tribute to Iyabo Ojo serves not only as praise but also as a timely reminder of the power of empathy and wisdom in parenting—even after separation.
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